So
The adventures of SV Wahine are dead and gone. This blog needs a new name ASAP! what should it be?
The adventures of new Terrie?
Terrie's Adventures?
Terrie's Travels?  I kinda like this one...
Chime in. We all know I need all  the help I an get.
Terrie

Im sad to say that my adventures on board the SV Wahine are forever over. He traded the boat and the property for our son. Well its actually worse than it sounds. He demanded that he keep the boat and all 3 propertys without once asking for more time with our son. So needless to say it was not hard for me to make that desicion. He can have it all and Robbie and I will start our new adventure with out him. The divorce is final last month. I no longer am admiral of the SV Wahine. It was a sad day for me. I will miss my boat. She was o.ne of a kind, It will be hard to replace her. Him however when I decide that I want to replace him i believe guys like him are a dime a dozen. Bet that I will be looking for some high end upgrades and this fellow better come with one hell of a sells pitch. And a beautiful boat.

Terrie's Lawyer Fund

Terrie's Lawyer Fund

So I now have to defend myself against the one person who I thought would always be there to protect me. WHY? I don't understand how we got here. I have tried everything and continue to pray for God to intervene and save our marriage. It is in his hands. The lawyer wants 2500$ to start just to take the case. It could be as much as 5 or 7000$. Can you imagine. We really don't have much of a choice but to pay it and they know they have us over a barrel. Lawyers and doctors really take advantage of others misfortunes. I have set up a pay pal account so if anyone wants to contribute to my cause feel free to make a donation. If my prayers are answered and our marriage is given another chance I will find an organization that helps women in need who are going through a divorce and donate all the funds to it. Wish me luck!
http://goo.gl/TSTkZ This should be the link to make a donation.

Well this has been the worst year in my almost 40 years!

A lot of my friends and family are wondering what the hell is wrong with me. Well here it is all wrapped up for you.

Last year and the beginning of this one I was fighting to save my home. We were being foreclosed on. I did save it.

Then on April 23rd my husband of 13 years announces out of the blue, at least it was to me, that he is not happy and he is leaving me. And he did.

My mother passed on July 31st. We did not have a great relationship and we had a lot of hostility between us and I feel bad about all we left unsaid.

Then my darling husband decided HE wants to live in our house and he asked me to move out. I didn't get much of a vote. I had to move. So now the home I fought for that is now a broken home and barely a house I am evicted from because he wants it.

Last week a very dear friend who happens to be my sons Great Grandmother passed away. She was one of just a few people who I could talk too.

I have lost 50 lbs, crying burns a lot of calories. But I have no money for clothes so if you see me naked pay me no mind. I am often sick. I don't sleep. I cry all the time and I am very depressed.

So to sum it up I lost my husband , my Mom, my home, my mind and a grandmother in a little over 6 months.
I will also be 40 in just a few weeks. YAH ME!
I wish I could go to sleep and wake up in a new year with a fresh new start.
I am seriously thinking of skipping Thanksgiving, my birthday, and Christmas!
Did I mention that the schedule that my thoughtful husband came up with states that he has our son Thanksgiving and Christmas. WTF

What do you do when everything you thought you knew was wrong?
What do you do when the thing you want the most you cannot have?
What do you do when everything you touch brakes or argues with you?
What do you do when you know how to fix something but your not allowed?
What do you do when your heart is hurting and you have no will to go on?
What do you do???????????

No things are not any better.
How long can you give of yourself before you run out of you? Is it an endless supply? Who refills it? Where does it come from?
I feel like I am running low.

I have had to face things this last month that nothing could have ever prepared me for. I am not dealing very well with it.
How do you except things that effect your life that you had no say in and are not allowed to try to fix them? HOW?
I am having difficulty focusing on anything except those things that I can not change. I tell myself to have faith and things will work themselves out. Well that's bullshit. Anyone who know me, knows I have no patience. That when I see something wrong I want to fix it. Well I can't fix this and it is making me crazy. How do you get patience? Where do you get them? How do you give up on something you want so badly and move on? Because I can't.
No I don't want to talk about it yet. Just say a prayer for me and forgive me if I have been a bit distracted lately. I am dealing with a lot. Feel free to send me any suggestions with learning to let things happen.

How many jobs is too many?
I am currently...
1st A mom and really awesome Mom too.
2ND Home school teacher.
A really hard teacher I'm told.
3rd Wife The best wife Robert ever had :)
4Th Care giver for my Mom and Roberts Grandma who is 96.
Which reminds me I forgot to go by and take in my
moms trash cans. I'm in trouble now.
5Th A chef.
6Th A substitute teacher.
7Th Landscaper
8Th Accountant
9Th Farmer
10Th Chicken keeper
11Th Dog Walker
12Th Dish washer
Why can't men run water in a dish
when they put it in the sink?
13Th Garbage Man
14Th Best Friend I rock at this one.
15Th Boat repair and painter.
16Th Driver and delivery person.
17Th Appointment scheduler.
18Th Mover of friends furniture.
19Th Baby sitter of Grand kids and assorted nieces and nephews
20Th........Blogger!!! Yeah
I actually get paid for 3 of these. Can you guess which ones?

Are you just marking time ? Or are you actually checking things off on your list?

Depends on what day you ask me. Most days I feel like I'm not making any progress on the Great List of things to do before we can sail off in to the sunset.
I sit here drinking a cup of tasty Dominican coffee that was a gift from a friend who was sailing the Caribbean. She is not currently sailing now and her boat sits as idle as ours. She had to go home and work. Which is my least favorite 4 letter word. What will I do when this coffee, now one of my favorites, is gone? I can't ask her to send more.
We sailed the Bahamas that first season we owned the boat and I think the first thing that comes to mind about that trip is the bread. You quickly run out of store bought bread when you take a extended trip on a sail boat. So off you go in search of ice and bread at every port of call. Ice was a given you knew it would be expensive and most of it would melt before you got it back to the boat. The bread however was an adventure in it's own. Go to this store, I was told. No, you must go to the straw market. You have to be there early or it will all be gone. You must place an order the day before. But we were not here the day before and may not be here tomorrow. Quickly I found it was worth the wait. Bimini bread is the best bread I have ever eaten! It never lasted long on the boat as we ate every morsel before it had the chance to get stale or heaven forbid moldy.
So I spent time with the local ladies, made a dear friend in Bimini, and learned who had the best bread in Alice town. I learned to slow down and enjoy a bit of the waiting. Waiting is not one of my strong points. It takes me weeks to adjust to being on the boat. Long extended periods of waiting. The destination I have planned and the things I will see and experience just as soon as the Captain sees fit in delivering us there in his meandering way. I really think some days he procrastinates just to torture me. Or maybe in his own way he is helping me to learn how to slow down. Naa I think he is just torturing me!
In somethings you can not wait. The boat is not going to fix its self and the things on the "list" will not go away. They must be done before we can leave. So as the Captain teaches me to slow down on the boat I must teach him to hurry up on land. I am almost out of coffee and can just smell the baking bread wafting across the gulf stream. Then of course there are those things yet to be discovered. There are 100"s of kinds of rum to sample before I can say without a doubt which is my favorite!
Honey time to go work on the boat!! HURRY!

As you know I have been very busy. Robbie and I took a 3 week road trip to Alaska with our S.V. Free Spirit friends. Thank you for letting us tag a long it was the trip of a life time. SO FAR! I am also home schooling and that's a trip of it's own. Then you can add BMX racing with Robbie to my schedule and my life is pretty hectic. So I thought I would share some pictures with you and bring you up to date with whats going on here.

Terrie

Terrie and Robbie at Mt. Rushmore. August 2010

Robbie and the Free Spirit boys in the Badlands August 2010.

Terrie and Robbie on Alaska trip. August 2010

Captain Robert Nov 2010

S.v. Wahine Nov. 2010

Me and my honey at our 20 year class reunion last month.

Scooby playing Captain last week.



Robert up the mast changing the mast head light bulb. We now have a LED bulb!

There is a little progress going on the boat.

We are still hoping to get out there and chase the dream.

This little angel has me wrapped around her little finger.
The best grand baby ever!

Robbie doing a little target practice.

He loves his weapons.

The 3 Thompson men enjoying a camp fire tonight.

Just wanted to share a couple of great pics.

Isn't it weird how much people can change over time.
I attended my High School reunion this past weekend, and we have all changed yet it seems that we have also remained the same. We all still have our little groups that we seems to be drawn to however we are able to go between these groups a lot less painlessly then we did in school. I think it is because now, we are actually interested in exploring those other groups. To see how others have changed. There are people I truly disliked in school that now I find we have a lot in common. My husband is a prime example of this phenomenon. We were not close in school and now he is my best friend.

I have been trying really hard to dedicate my self to homeschooling. We feel very strongly about this as when we sail off into the sunset we will HAVE to home school. I would like to have a good foundation in place so that the change in location isn't to much for us to handle.
HOWEVER.
I am struggling with schedules and keeping him on task. The subjects are easy at this point. Even someone like me can handle the teaching. Me being one who hated school.
I am looking for ways to keep him interested and me motivated. I can not give up. If this does not work it will put a serious damper on our sailing plans.

We just finished a 3 week road trip across country to Alaska with a sailing friend. Along the way I read to him from a book about each state we were in. Well sometimes when we stopped we covered several of the states at once. We also went to Mt Rushmore. Very educational YES!! I think that there are educational opportunities every where.
I will post some pics of our trip soon. But now it is time for school.

It is just in my nature to be nice. Hasn't always been that way. But that is a whole other topic we won't dwell into. I enjoy being the hostess. Hospitality should be by middle name and it's not JUST because I live in the south.
I must make a confession. I do these things because they make me happy! Yep there it is, Purely selfish. I get a great deal of enjoyment out of helping others. Entertaining others. Cooking for others. Who wants you to be the only person you cook for. If I didn't have someone to cook for I probably would not cook at all. I'd probably be eating out of the can over the kitchen sink. YUCK.
So what prompted this line of thoughts this morning you might ask? Well the other night a very dear friend called and said me and the kids will be there in a couple of weeks and need to stay a few days. Can you pick us up from the airport?? Woohoo I can't wait to see them. Of course come. I would have jumped in my truck right then and went and got them. But alas I must wait. I don't like to wait. I'm not a patient person.
But I digress. These friends I met because of the Boat. We met in the yard while they were working getting ready to set sail on a grand adventure. We also have boat friends in Spain, California, and the Florida Keys. Who knows where else! Everywhere we go I meet new and interesting people who have touched my life and made a lasting impression. I'm not saying they have all been good impressions. There are those you wish you hadn't met. They make the good ones stand out more so.
How do make these friends you want to know? I'm NICE! It's that easy. Smile, lend a hand, or offer a ride. Invite them to dinner. It really is that easy. And you touch a life, brighten somebody else's day. Who knows, that person might return the favor to you someday or pass it along randomly to someone else. But you have another friend, out there.
So, go sailing!

reason #71
To go sailing!!

Treasure hunting we found the anchor right here at home, just think what we might find
"out there"!! Let's all go sailing. It might be good for the economy.

Robert has been making some headway on some of the many repairs Wahine is in need of. He has cut out a portion of cap rail and replaced it with new pipe. He had to add some new medal underneath where there was a lot of corrosion.

I will try to get down there soon and take a picture of the new medal installed.

Wahine is very happy that we have removed the unsightly blemish from her lovely hull.

Wahine Speaks to us!

This was taken last month by none other than Waddy! Awesome pic PAPA!

Boats have their own personalty and characteristics. Sail boats I think more so. Old sail boats our in a whole other league. Ours is no exception. She lets us know when she needs attention, and when she wants to go somewhere. A gentle pull on her dock lines a hick up in the engine room. Sometimes she just screams ME ME ME!!! . Last weekend Robert went down to the boat to move her back to a friends dock. I guess she wasn't ready to go. The night before she wouldn't run right. Then the anchor was really really dug in. When Robert was ready to head down river she got hung up on something. He thought he had freed it and started off again. NOPE she said still hung up. The anchor had hung on a piece of chain from the bottom of the river and Robert had pulled it up with his anchor. In the process of figuring this all out the engine ran out of fuel. This never happens! But we are planning on hauling out soon so we let it run down fairly low. Apparently to low. Doesn't matter Wahine was not ready to go yet. Drop our anchor, climb down to figure out what we are hung on, start hauling in the chain. And hauling and hauling. Wonder what is on the other end. An anchor, an engine block, a small Volkswagen??

So to keep out of trouble during this process Robbie decides he should clean the decks. Did I mention it had started raining. With everything already wet it was a great idea. She really needed it. Things turn green in the river fast. So a tune up and a bath!

Many hours later he finds the end. But wait there is still another end as Robert had hung it in the middle. Haul, and hoist some more. FINALLY the other end comes up and low and behold there is an anchor on it and approximately 240 feet of Awesome chain. Awesomely heavy. Robert thinks that he actually knows who made this particular anchor. Tom Colvin, the same designer who built our boat. HHMMM wonder who might have lost it? Wonder how it is that we were the ones to find it. Wahine works in mysterious ways. We will show pics to Tom and if it is one of his maybe he can tell us who he sold it to. I wonder if there is a finders fee!! It looks really expensive. Or maybe just really heavy. Here are some pictures of Wahine's latest treasure find.







P.S. She willingly went back to her dock down river the next day.

The Chain all 240 feet!

The very heavy anchor.

Facebook is bad for bloggers!! I spend way to much time on facebook reading everybody else's thoughts instead of expressing my own.
So here our some of my own.

This mess in the Gulf of Mexico SUCKS! So I better go to the beach and enjoy it before it is gone!
Our sailboat is a mess and we are not making much progress.
My Spanish is going very slowly! Maybe I can figure out how to make my facebook page in Spanish so I would HAVE to practice my Spanish.
My grand babies are awesome and a joy.
My son is racing BMX and we will be at the bike track every Saturday morning! SWEATING!!

More thought s soon!!

This picture of Wahine was taken this week in the river on the way to the city dock for a much needed bath. The rust down the side is the result of a rotten cap rail.

That is top of the repair list.

Robbie fooling around at the park by the river!! Free spirit I bet you recognize this play ground!

I am a very bad blogger! That said- here is an update on the crew of the S.V.Wahine!

Robert and Terrie working A LOT

Robbie playing ball .

Scooby chasing the ball A LOT!!

There is actually some progress going on in regards to sailing off in to the sunset. Robert has removed the old life lines and repaired the rudder chain. He is about to start the repairs on the cap rails. Then I will have lots of stuff to paint and sand. We have had many discussions about the lay out of the new galley. The design being the hardest part!!

So the holidays are over and were well into the new year. I think we all make resolutions. Some out loud and others to yourself. Here are a few of mine. Maybe by listing them here I will hold myself accountable for making some of the things on this list happen.

1. learn to speak Spanish it will make traveling more interesting.
2. loose weight. Not because I don't like the way I look. But for my health.
3.declutter my house. I have way to much STUFF.
4. Work harder on getting Wahine ready to Sail away into the sunset!!